​Life Is An Empty Canvas

​Life Is An Empty Canvas

Nicole Rush
If you ever lose my trust, you probably will never get it back.

I have heard an ancient Sufi parable:

Two disciples of a great Master were walking in the garden of the Master’s house. They were allowed to walk every day, morning, evening. The walking was a kind of meditation, just as Zen people do walking meditation. You cannot sit for twenty four hours, the legs need a little movement, the blood needs a little circulation, so in Zen and in Sufism both, you meditate for a few hours sitting and then you start meditating walking. But the meditation continues, walking or sitting, the inner current remains the same.

They both were smokers. They both wanted to ask for the permission of the Master, so they both decided, “Tomorrow. At the most, he will say no, but we are going to ask. And it doesn’t seem such a sacrilegious act to smoke in the garden; we will not be smoking in his house itself."

The next day they met in the garden. One was furious — furious because the other was smoking — and he said, “What happened? I also asked, but Master flatly refused and said 'No' and you are smoking? Are you not abiding by his orders?”

He said, “But he has said yes to me.

This looked very unjust. Therefore, the first said, “I will go and immediately inquire as to why he said no to me and yes to you.”

The other said, “Wait a minute. Please tell me what you had asked.”

He said, “What I had asked? I had asked a simple thing, ‘Can I smoke while meditating?’" He said, "No!’ and he looked very angry.”

The other started laughing; he said, “Now I know what the matter is. I asked, ‘Can I meditate while smoking?’ He said ‘yes."

It all depends. Just a little difference and result is totally different. Now, there is a great difference. Asking, “Can I smoke while meditating?” is just ugly. But asking,” Can I meditate while smoking?” — It is perfectly okay. Good! At least you will be meditating.

Communication is an art.  It starts with asking right question, in a right manner, at a right place or situation, with an end objective in mind. 

As told by Osho in the series “The Secret”

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Zoe Wright Social Marketing Strategist

Skillful communicators get a lot more done in less time. They rollover the bumps smoothly. People do not realize the power that they can wield through words.

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